That is a lose I hope I never have to face. You have my deepest sympathy. Grace sounds like she was a wonderful daughter and you must have made great memories together. No on can ever take those away from you. She would have wanted you to remember the good times.
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Bipolar I, Depression, GAD Meds: Zoloft, Zyprexa, Ritalin
"Each morning we are born again. What we do today is what matters most." -Buddha