Hello & Welcome, Dilemma-girl.

Several comments stand out to me:

• he resents my past
• I don't like how he treats me
• I can't get over his mood swings
• he cut off all my friends and monitors my phone (!!!)

I am concerned this current relationship is not healthy for you.

Have you spoken to any professional counsellors about your relationship patterns?

You may find valuable perspectives in the Relationships & Communication Forum.

Make yourself at home, Dilemma-girl.