I'm married for 4 years. I love my wife, always have, always will.
The problem is that I can't stop thinking and fantasizing about other women, or check out other women.
I know myself and sure 100% I won't cheat, even though I have the opportunities, but I can stop this obsessive thoughts. it happens every night, and sometimes it comes on our expense as a couple. My wife doesn't know it.

Is it addiction?