hey tessaone, i'll see if i can't help you out on this one. as a guy i can tell you that we are very visual creatures, soooo with that being said, one of the best things you can do to gain a man's attention is to be dressed very nicely.

a well dressed woman with a great smelling perfume can be downright intoxicating for us guys...the perfume is a must...don't be cheap either..a good perfume is well worth the cost.

so being nicely dressed( no jogging pants, please!..THIS IS A MAJOR TURN OFF FOR MOST GUYS) shows that you care about your appearance, that alone will grab the object of your desire's attention along with a great smelling perfume and you have formed a combination that is tough to beat!

so without knowing much about the guy, this is a general guideline for starters, a template if you will..so start from there and see if you can get some eye contact and go from there! good luck & go for it!