Thanks you guys. I think I'll wait and see how the weekend goes... if he keeps house like his mom, I'll be back fast! Actually, on his last visit to see me at the old apartment, he did some of the things I'd put off because I'm short and they're a pain in the back to do. Also, want to tell him about the bipolar diagnosis face to face... I don't think it'll scare him, though... he's seen me manic and he's seen me sliding down to the dumps. He just rolls with the punches, so to speak. Hmmm... now I gotta decide what I want to wear... eeeeeeek!