I have been with my partner for three years and im starting to get confused and worn down. Hes highly intelligent but is incapable of holding down a job I have supported him financially for years and hes never done anything for me. He lies and has cheated before, any argument we have he twists things and I get so muddled as to whats happening. He will give me the silent treatment until I appologize and I have never seen any guilt or remorse from him even if I do get a sorry it seems false. Any time we argue he either leaves me or threatens too then proceeds to cut me out of his life for weeks only to reappear. I get sucked in time and time again. More recently I went through a bereavement and he reacted completely disconnected when we finally talked about it he told me hes never loved anyone and he feels no empathy for me or anyone else. I feel like im loosing my mind in this cycle but I love him and I really dont understand whats wrong with him. Any insight would help