S4, I know you, and your wonderful human being! Any girl who has met you or will meet you will surely KNOW that your wonderful, good, reliable, person! Attraction is a hard thing, and tricky, well lol at least for me, IDK about how BPD feel, I know how HPD"S feel when attraction comes their way! But at any rate keep up the good work your rad and you will find someone, or they will find you, it happens naturally, you will feel it, when its different? I say it that way cause with every other man Ive met they couldn't keep me satisfied, this man Ive been with had never left my mind since i was 15, so that says alot, and i know longer want to search for another, and you KNOW ME lol, and thats saying alot, so dont worry buddy, I think I spoke to you about this yesterday on chat and you said you were going to chill out on women, maybe not in that exact context but you get what im saying, she will come I know it, your rad, and I know that some of these replies were taking out of the wrong context, he wasnt saying he wanted to be mean, nor did he say every women is the same, he is a very intelligent human being, and love and relationship are hard, especially the real deal its hard to find the one you love, and that being said, its not a BPD thing nor a HPD thing, were taught as children even by Disney, that the prince or princess will come and sweep us off our feet, I mean this is taught to us as children we run away get married and live happily ever after, that being said keep up the good work s4