In my oppinion it is all in your confidence. A womam can dress to the T for a date and not carry herself well. I have nothing but guy friends and they at one time have all said confidence is the most attractive trait a woman csn have. Appearance is important in the beginning of a relationship. Not dressing up in drezses and what not, but having a clean kept appearance or if ur just slumming it arpund the house watchimg movies by all means bust out the sweats. Always be yourself though. Its easy to agree with things you know they like but if it isnt who you are inside than you really can't fake that forever. Plus you dont want to build up this person you think they would want if indeed that is mot you. Thats not fair to either of you. You want him to fall in love with you and who you are not who you want to be. Men arent hard to please really. Communication is hard gor a lot of them so I think sometimes you have to pull them out of their shell. Talk about life and your interests and your dreams or plans you have for you yourself. I believe men like women who know what they want and can express it and go after it. Also, a good sense of humor and you have to be able to laugh at yourself with them if something embarrassing happens. They dont like uptight. Most importantly though I believe its the comfort factor. When you find someone I think its important to be comfortable in any setting when you are together. My ex told me his problem with the women he has been dating is that if there is silence its awkward. When we were together we were both fine in silence it wasnt awkward but comforting to know we had each other and could sit in a quiet room together completely comfortable. I could keep going and going but these are things I have heard from mens mouths.

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