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for me integration was not a matter where I could choose. the alters were extremely important to me too and they were instrumental in my survival. its just that as I healed they with out any deciding, or whether I wanted them to or not did merge together with me. it was just the natural result of healing from my problems....
well my point is if its in the cards for you and your internal system to be separate like you want it to be it will happen. 
if not well like I found out whether I wanted it to happen or not, it did and there is life after integration and it turned out wonderful for me..
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That is great, Amandalouise, and I am very glad you have managed this amazing achievement - healing on that scale is a wonderful thing and proves it can be done. I was lucky in having a therapist trained by John Southgate, who has done al lot of research into DID with emphasis on attachment, and the different ways of resolving the complex nature of interaction between alters.