I don't know whether your boyfriend loves you or not, but I'm pretty sure he doesn't feel secure within himself. There are many ways to look at the situation...he might be turned on at the thought of you with another man in a sexual way, he might like causing you to feel guilty. It sounds, maybe, like a cultural issue, the way your boyfriend places so much importance on you not having been a virgin when you met him. The bible says "spouse" but, unless I'm misunderstanding, the man is not your husband. It sounds to me like you are not entirely love with him, or that you have regret about being with him? When he teases you about being a porn star try asking him, "Do you like that idea?" His reply will give you much information.