I'm 45 and my boyfriend is 19. We just got engaged and planning to marry in two years. For the most part people are accepting of us being together but his dad has a major issue with it. I understand to a point that it's weird I'm just a few years younger that his dad. His family is conservative and religious where I'm liberal and don't attend church regularly. Other than that I really don't get the problem. Anyway, when it comes to love age shouldn't matter, it's how you feel for each other. Yes there will be people that have a problem with you being together but need to develop think skin and let it go.