Hi Thanks for listening.

Yes she did and while things were going well she did not have to work as we had more than enough income. Thing is my father in law and mother in law moved in with us shortly after we got married. My Mother in Law has passed away since but my Father in Law still lives with us. I think in our whole married live we were only living alone for 4 months. I am a compassionate person and hate conflict and would rather avoid it. Even when my wife argues with me I normally just keep quiet and let her blow off steam. She says Hurtful things and this is the reason why my mother could be advising me to get out, My wife says she loves me and cant stand to lose me. I told her about what my mother said and she replied that my mother should say something like that as she ran from her Marriage from my father when things got tough. The same as my two sisters. It might not be totally true as my mother had an affair with another man and my one sister got out of an abusive marriage where her husband was an alcoholic and the other sisters husband cheated on her and her two kids. But all told I still believe that we took an Oath before God for better or worse. I know marriage is hard work and not easy. I do my best and try to avoid the situations that could set my wife off. I help around the house and do small things like Cooking dinner and bringing her coffee in bed. But all this is being taken for granted and expected. I wait on my wife and bring her anything she desires. But its all one sided and no real return. I have been trying to see where the love and the actions are being reciprocated but fail to see this maybe I am blinded. I just do not know.