I ruined a relationship at the end of last year, ouch ... cos I did the whole stupid trying to od (very unsuccessfully obviously) and putting him through that and refusing to get any help until he physically dragged me to dr in relation to a stomach bug i had constantly (which was probably just physical manifestation of feeling crappy).

So when you are in a really bad place ... it's pretty unfair to the other person sometimes. But then it may just be me.