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Old May 24, 2014, 03:35 PM
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Originally Posted by ThroughBeingCool View Post
Call me a fool, but I do think it's possible. I'm with the love of my life now, but it wasn't always that way.
I was married once and it ended in divorce. Then I was with an abusive partner who I was not married to but it was a long-term relationship.
I think that one must deal with the issues that caused the last relationship to end, or the same issues will carry over into the next relationship.
I myself am a work in progress. In therapy trying to take my control back so to speek. but him and I both strongly believe in marriage. Just not marriage too soon.
Best of luck.
i couldn't agree with you more, i strongly believe in marriage as well & definitely not too soon, i want to be sure..you know, so i have been patient..made many mistakes relationship wise & learned from them( i think)

i never knew there was anything wrong with me..then i started analyzing patterns and realized part of the constant was me & realized maybe i need to change somethings about myself.. hmmm, that's a noble thought!

so i wonder & wait & watch &learn and try to work on myself to be the best person i can be..i guess that's all i can really do on my part!
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