I hear about that, but I never understood. And after I started have sex, I didn´t understand yet more. Per my experiences, men have no interest, whether I had orgasm or not. Sad, but reality. One of main reasons, why I am single. I did explain them, that I have orgasm only clitoridal way, but they don´t like cunnilingus, so I was aroused, they had orgasms, plural, I didn´t. They never cared. Men of different age and education. So, why pretend?