So your choice is to walk on eggshells because the idea of divorce or annulment goes against your your internal moral fiber,which could be resulted from the pain of being a child of divorce?
No money for food, with your father in law, living there? Why not?
Yeah...her getting back to work sounds reasonable.
Did your mom feel this way, from the get go?

If not, marital counseling, what about individual counseling?

Can dietary changes be made in grocery budget, to accommodate? Three adults, one child...$400-$500/month could work...if not a little less....

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