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Originally Posted by trying2survive
i can understand your point of view, but as me being a guy myself & having a lot of guy friends...the majority of us care not for a girl just throws on a pair of jogging pants on a regular basis...everyone is different..this is true, for me and most of the guys i know/associate with/hang around..we appreciate a well dressed woman.
some guys wouldn't care if a woman wore a monkey suit as long as she is female..myself..a little more picky than that. so unfortunately in the world we live in, the way you carry yourself GENERALLY will determine the type of people you wish to attract, IMHO if you wish to attract a higher quality type of guy, well....jogging pants aren't gonna do it, i would advise to step it up a bit.
but again keep in mind the OP is asking what to do to attract a guy/guy they are interested in, with this being said i feel it is safe to ASSUME (i could be wrong) that the OP previous methods are not effective/ or not confident in those methods.
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Every guy I've dated, without fail, has been totally into me while I was wearing my usual- hoodie, jeans, sneakers. I've never attracted someone wearing anything particularly special.
This is not exclusive to one "type" really either.
I agree with the comments you make about how one carries themselves, absolutely.
My mother raised me though, that if you walk right and carry yourself well? You can make a burlap sack look good.
And re: "quality gentlemen". If they won't even talk to me because I'm wearing sweats or jeans, or no makeup, or whatever their particular "no, because" is?
I don't really consider that very high quality anything.
But I am not a you, t2s, looking for a gentleman.
I am a female, NOT currently in need of one.
PS: Also, my guy friends? The ones who've never gotten sleazy, who I could trust to take care of me if i needed them, who I could definitely feel comfortable oking for a date with any of my girlfriends? WHo are smart and warm and compassionate and funny and generally awesome?
...they would pretty much agree with what I'm saying too.
There's no one size fits all, as was suggested earlier in the thread. It depends what you are looking for.
Even, what "quality" is for each individual.