I need a reality check here. Please advise on how I can balance my thoughts and actions in helping, communicating, and involving my life with all around me. I feel overwelmed at the moment. My adult male son and my husband seem to clash at every issue especially the current one of my son building a new house and his general lifestyle and opinions. My husband, I know is very knowledgeable in all of the areas of this project and when my son asks for his opinion, etc. he gives it and then my son does the opposite most of the time. Alot of it is youth and inexperience, but what is happening, when it all works out the way we figured it will, then we have the moodiness and anger, the whole nine yards. I feel the need to be fair to both but we have to strong male egos here. Help!