I think, it was a wrong choice
but to err is human.
Its good if u r going for marriage counselling.
If it doesnt work, u need to forget him and start ur life all over again but if it works, u should forget all those lies he said and need to be more strong to deal with him.
Its really a hard time but dont forget these are all lessons from God. Maybe he is trying to teach u to be strong. So just calm down and wait and see what happens.
Stay blessed.