The skeptic and cynic in me says to avoid him because he's neither interested in anything other than a romantic/sexual partner, nor is he genuine, as I believe he probably made up that stuff about violence to look good and get on your side. Granted, I'd say similar things if it came up in conversation, but, ... put it this way, I do mean some things genuinely, so when I hear about guys going around ********ting women to get in their underwear, or whatever else, it pisses me off, because it's unfair to genuine people, makes a genuine person sound fake or easy to question, and it also makes me paranoid in an OCD-y kind of way (like, am I like that? Am I fake? And all these other second-guesses) ... that's the skeptic and cynic within; feel free to ignore it. xD

In a nut-shell, I'd let it go. You don't like him, anyway. Do you want a friend, lover, partner, or just someone with a cool accent? Haha. :P

Also, if he knew you have had bad experiences in the past, because you told him, then I imagine that would give him an even better shot to get in your good books, ... think of this way--and this is where my cynicism wins--what's more likely: you met some twit who wants a fling, or you met a genuinely decent guy? Remember where you met him, and the odds are then probably not in your favor. (if it's the sort of phone thing I'm thinking of)

I may be Mr. Negative and what-have-you, but as they say, I prefer to err on the side of caution. Sorry for being so cynical, pessimistic, negative, etc. I can't help being like this, ... so much ******** in the world - I'd rather just not assume good things, so I'm not let down when I meet, see, or read about a giant tit, which, as it happens, occurs too often. xD