I've been thinking about this since I read your post yesterday, I17. In my own case I think there's a certain dynamic. The "sharks" sense weakness in me and I find myself dealing with a disproportionate share of them.
That's no longer my day-to-day situation as I've pretty much withdrawn from society.
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My dog
mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.