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Looks like you were trying turn him into something he is not - because you are lonely?? Do not take it personally. It can be hard on the self-esteem. And you may look "good" but looks are not the only thing that matters - If he did not think you looked good enough - let it go - another week would not make a difference. You cannot always help what you are attracted to. Do not fantasize about what a friendship with him MIGHT look like. Let someone prove "who they are by their actions" - not just words. When you are visiting those type of apps - they usually are checking out as many individuals as they can. Good Luck!
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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