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Pretending has been one of the hardest things for me to do. There are so very few people I can be "who I really am" with. I understand. Me, personally, I would rather not have a boyfriend then one I have to be phony with and about. I understand your frustrations. From my experiences, it's rare to have that totally real relationship with - friend or lover.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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