Thought of one possibility. Had a psychologist state he couldn't see my son's, the ones with neurological illnesses, without verbal or written consent by my ex husband, because of 'Shared' legal custody, and could lead to back peddling of progression of treatment.
So, thought is, perhaps, due to finding out about treatment due to insurance statements, treatment of you could be hindered by your husband, if he's not on board? It's really, their right as treatment providers to not find themselves wasting their time or yours.

That's about all I can conclude at the moment.

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