Hi Hazegirl, but it only occurs when i get him upset sometimes and he never has threatened to hurt me but he has threatened suicide and I told him that we cannot be together if he threatens to hurt himself whenever something goes wrong because I felt that that was some sort of control he was trying to use and I would not tolerate that and he agreed. And yes but my thing is I cannot get him to tell his parents he believes they won't love him anymore. And he is going to England for that around end of July or August but I
Leaving before hand so i worried and he's ashamed he is having these problems do he's sort of at that in denial stage. Thank you for taking the time to read my forum.