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Originally Posted by bixkf
I too am sorry you are going through this.
I wanted to ask, have you told any of them how you feel about their treatment of you? Also, how old are you friends?
I ask because I actually feel that my wife and daughters treat me the same way. I personally have told them that it bothers me. However, my oldest daughter has been diagnosed with A.D.D. and I've always thought my wife was borderline A.D.D. as well. It's possible that I'm not being ignored or interrupted because they don't love me, just that physically they aren't able to keep their concentration on me. Teens, especially boys, have issues with concentration too.
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I told one of them and she apologized but really doesn't make an effort to change. One of them has ADHD, which is the one who apologized, and one guy friend has ADD. The others just simply interrupt. I give the two friends with ADD and ADHD a little slack and lead way but they tend to do it way more to me than towards others. The one with ADHD is 20, almost 21, the one with ADD is 20, another guy is 19, almost 20, and the other girl is 19. I just turned 24 so maybe the age difference plays a factor in it? Maybe they really don't like me as much of a friend because of that.