I love my husband, he's a lovely and caring man but sometimes he can be so boring in bed. Last night when we had sex, he ejaculated after 5 minutes, he always was able to go for hours, even a year ago he could make me orgasm easily, now i have to finger myself to orgasm and have him lick down there to help. It just has become so bad and is making me low, I wonder maybe since I put weight on has he gone off me. He works in an office with lots of women dressed smart and looking pretty, maybe he prefers them.