I've been eating more and trying to recover for nearly two months now. The first month or so, I didn't gain any weight at all. The second month, I rediscovered my love for ice cream and I've finally started to put the weight back on, but I'm still disordered enough that the weight gain is bothering me.

My parents keep on commenting on the weight gain. I know they're trying to encourage me, but a lot of the time, what they say is triggering. It's hard enough to deal with weight gain, it's even harder knowing that other people are noticing it. And I've tried to tell them that, but they just don't get it.

How do I deal with this?