How would a girl feel if a guy that she talked to a lot had a crush on them but she was already engaged?
there is this tutor I worked with in college for my math class. She is about 27 and I am 22. My class ended but I still see her around a lot on campus and we chat a lot. I have asked questions about this situation before. I realize I have a big crush on her and think about her a lot, but I have zero chance with her because she is engaged and she is older. That is fine, I respect that, but I wonder if she can tell that I have a crush on her and how would she probably feel if she knew. Angry? Scared? Disgusted?

No way in hell am I going to tell her, but I wonder if she can find out some way, and how she would feel? It would be a shame if she starts feeling weird or hates me even though I don't plan to do anything