mouse, when i first came here, i told people that i didn't like the hugs............i'm better now but i do understand what you're saying......my BS detector is on "high" and rarely fails me. i am very blunt and direct IRL and probably also online more than some are comfortable with.

i never have figured out why we have to dance around something. i'd rather get to the point and get on with it...........xoxoxo pat