mmm. the whole point is that it isn't about your shirt or your skin...it's about your son's emerging sexuality and his normal age-appropriate discomfort with it.

If someone you loved was uncomfortable with say... loud music.. Would you turn it down to help your loved one feel more comfortable?

Your son's T was giving you some ideas to make your loved one more comfortable.

Children are sexual at a young age, but puberty is when it emerges. He is uncomfortable with it. I'm so glad he has a T to talk to about it. It sounds like they are talking about healthy boundaries and that's great. That includes family members undressing and dressing in private.