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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
While I understand your approach, I think it's less than ideal. If you're with someone you cannot share your most intimate feelings and thoughts you should not be with them. If you feel the need to hide such information with them then they are not someone you should even consider being intimate with because in my mind, that's a necessary expectation.
I have dealt with people that do that - exes. It does not make me want to hide myself from anyone, but instead makes me convinced that I need to keep looking for that right person I can actually trust fully...
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I appreciate that, but....there are only so many times you can accept a kick you knew was coming because you provided the target. I agree, a person has to be able to totally trust someone they love. And I've tried. And I've always, always gotten lost.
Not that this 'person' isn't 'somewhere out there' for me to find...maybe. I just don't know if I can manage to really accept they aren't just practicing for the final kick when they've had enough.
Anyway, thanks for the thoughtful reply.