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Originally Posted by waiting4
I appreciate that, but....there are only so many times you can accept a kick you knew was coming because you provided the target. I agree, a person has to be able to totally trust someone they love. And I've tried. And I've always, always gotten lost.
Not that this 'person' isn't 'somewhere out there' for me to find...maybe. I just don't know if I can manage to really accept they aren't just practicing for the final kick when they've had enough.
Anyway, thanks for the thoughtful reply.
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and I don't mean to imply that you should ever endure the kicks that come but dump anyone abusive enough to do that. Move on... Don't trust anyone until you're sure.. but even then, of course it's a risk. Trust me, there are plenty of people that aren't this way out there.
I was with a partner that used my issues against me, even though, of course as she is human too, she had her flaws. She became very overweight in our time together and she cannot once recall my ever using that against her or her own mental health issues. I just won't do it.