No we don't watch porn together, I don't like it so he does it "behind" my back. But I don't mind it anymore. I think all men watch it because it is so acessible and I do realise that I can't stop him from masturbation. It is his right .
And he has higher sex drive than me so ...this is not an issue that bothers me anymore.
He watches regular stuff, nothing weird as I could see from history.

Where we live counciling is not so common or available. Psychotherapy is very expensive that is not something we can afford really.