Echoes, Though I am very pleased for you, I must admit my stomach churned a little as I read. I mean how would you have felt if she had said "I;m sorry I don't feel we would be a good fit together?" That would have felt awful for you? I dunno maybe I'm out of line here but it just churned my stomach somewhat. I felt this T was putting a heavy weight onto your shoulders? as I say I am pleased for you. Had you had any worrys about this yourself?