Becca, Its like that in the begining. I expected my T to do most of the talking and asking etc but she didn't and its taken a while to almost learn how to talk about myself. I've always done a lot of talking but talking about myself in any real sense was alien to me. I was raised in a family where people only got heard when they argued. Bit by bit T has shown me how to talk about myself and how I'm feeling and what I feel I need. Just give time, time!