Crushes on people who are not exactly available is hard. Moving on is hard. I recently had a crush on my neighbor and I'm kind of over him. I also looked him up online as well and finding more about him made me crush even harder. I felt very creepy and ashamed. I don't know exactly what advice to give you but how I got "over" him was by telling myself that I had no chance even though I don't know that. I stopped looking him up online. It was very tempting and hard at first but knowing less about them is better. I also thought about how if I ever did date him, I'd feel guilty if we hang out because I basically stalked him before I met him and that'd make feel really bad. I was a little depressed at first but time healed everything. I still see him here and there when I take the trash out and stuff and my heart hurts a little but he is not on my mind as often. Seeing him occasionally doesn't help. Maybe if I saw him less, I'd be completely over him. I recommend not looking her up online and maybe now that you graduated, you're not gonna see her as often. Time will help as well. Good luck and I hope someday you find someone who has mutual feelings!
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