1) If I had a whole day I'd want to go to a coffee house/bakery for breakfast and just chat. Then we'd do something outdoor - a short hike to a waterfall would be fun. We'd have a picnic, play some board games, lay in the sun, ask each other "hypothetical scenario" questions and enjoy just being "free". I think we'd both like a break, so we'd go to my imaginary apartment to shower and since we are both kind of introverts she'd read for a while and I'd play a game on my computer, text or watch a show. We'd eventually do some online window shopping and come up with some cute outfit ideas for each other. Then, I'd make Indian food for dinner and cupcakes for dessert followed by a comedy movie on the floor in the den with sangria. It would be good, clean fun and then she'd leave for the night to be with her family and I'd spend the evening reflecting on the nice relaxing day.

2) I don't think i'd like to go on a trip anywhere with T unless it was a day trip on a train (never been on one) to do a little "journey to discovering who I am" type thing and she would be there helping me to really let go of all the pain inside. That would be nice.