I usually tend to ignore them, though it can get on my nerves. I am not usually labeled, as by all standards I'm a pretty normal looking gal, but I do get very upset at both my mother and grandmother. Any time they see someone who is unmarried or dresses differently my grandma will go "oh he's gay", even if I try to tell her she's wrong she'll keep on. It can get frustrating, but I've learned you just can't help people who want to label that way.