Just to put a question out there--

Has it been possible for anyone to let things go at work? To realize you don't have control and let bygones be bygones?

I wonder about that a lot. I'll need to get a job soon and I don't want to take on the stress I used to. But, if certain things at work prevent ME from being able to work, I'll get frustrated and stressed. If things happen I don't have control over and don't really affect me too much, I think I could manage. How often does that happen, really?