I met him for dinner last night. It was really nice. I know that I really like him, but I'm not sure how he feels about me still.

I think that, rather than kiss him, I am going to write him a letter expressing my feelings for him and asking him if he would like to have a romantic relationship with me. I will emphasize in the letter that if he doesn't feel the same, I will understand, and that I still want to be friends.

I'm not sure if I should give the letter to him, or mail it. I think a letter is a good idea, however, because it will give him time to reflect on what I tell him and he won't feel pressured to respond the same way. Also, if something does come of this, it will be a very romantic documentation of our relationship for the future.