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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
Ok so I'm not asking for advice about how to approach this girl or anything like that at all. I have done all the asking about this and I know that if I'm ever to meet any women at all with the potential of any relationships ever I'm going to have to get my butt in gear and do something :[
Anyway so... I haven't been dating, or really had any RL relationships for what, 2+ years now? Every one of the love interests I've had have been online and I've come to the conclusion that, although I know it can work, it's very easy to get out of a relationship online, disconnect and dump people without any kind of real consequences. Just happened far too many times and frankly, I've decided to stick to local girls.. but I'm getting off track here.
I don't think I'm all that, and don't consider myself "eye candy" for women by any stretch of the imagination, so when I get glances, looks or anything at all, I usually brush them off or say "oh that was nice" and move on.. Don't really think I get looked at so when it does happen it's surprising. But anyway...
I frequent a Walmart (don't you judge me!) because it's very close (across the street from me) and there is a lady there that caught my eye. She works there and I've seen her quite often and we've exchanged glances but never said hi or anything like that. She's usually moving about doing her job, as she's not a cashier. Anyway I never figured I've caught her eye but recently I've wondered.
I was at the Walmart with my kids, I have 3. Just doing my thing, shopping for groceries and household items when I saw her not far away doing some stocking. She looked right at me and I won't say it was with interest, because if I knew that I wouldn't be here asking about this... but she didn't avert her gaze. It wasn't exactly staring but just like... looking at me, for maybe.. 5 - 8 seconds? (guessing) She didn't exactly smile or frown but just had mostly a plain expression on her face. it only lasted a few seconds but it's stuck with me...
Does this say anything at all? As I've said, she's seen and exchanged looks with me before but this was something else. I know she recognizes me because I'm there a lot. I have no idea how to tell when someone is interested, wanting you to say hi, or approach them otherwise or if people just look at each other that way. Idk.. help if you can.
I know I don't typically look at a female typically unless they catch my eye and especially if they look back I usually look away for fear of looking like a weirdo. or pervert or something terrible. Idk. But I'm a guy so I dunno how women behave in this manner.
Perhaps it's nothing. Maybe it is.
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i'll try to help you if i can! first let me say that i love wal mart, go there all the time & btw it's actually a pretty good place to meet women! i have had a couple of good experiences there, but anyways let me get to the point and see if i can help at all.
the fact that she looked at you for more than a few seconds is promising...doesn't necessarily mean that she is into you, but doesn't scream "i'm not interested".
one of the surest ways to tell if someone is interested in you is a warm smile, but not all people are in the mood to smile all the time & she may not have been too happy at work, at least all the people at my two wal marts almost never smile! LOL! i think they hate the place.
this it what i would suggest, next time you see her walk up to her and start a conversation about what she is doing..this way you can get closer and see if she has a ring on her finger & break the ice at the same time.
based on the info i have ..i do think there could be some potential....but, you are going to have to spark up a conversation and read her body language from there, it's kinda difficult to get a true read because she is at her work place..but that's all you have to work with.
i know it's not much, i hope it helps some, but you are just going to have to roll the dice and go for it...it's the only way you will know for sure!
hope this helps and good luck!
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