And as a woman, I would expound on that....I am absolutely turned off by the 'body-builder steroidial' type of guy...don't care for a man significantly overweight although that has more to do with my being little and not wanting to be squished. lol

That said, men of average build attract me, and thin ones too depending on personality. Height has never been an issue for me (I'm 5'5") and I know a significant portion of the lady population feel as I do. When it comes down to brass tacks, it IS more about personality tho. If a guy can make me laugh, that's the first step for me. If he can actually hold a conversation, and has an opinion...oh wow, we're nearly there. After that, it's about the physicality. If you've seen the extreme spectrum of men I've dated over the years, you'd understand what I mean...for me, sexy is confidence, a good sense of humour and a nice smile.

After that...it's all cream