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Old May 28, 2014, 02:11 PM
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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006 View Post
99% sure it wasn't zoning out. That much I am sure of. There's a difference between looking in my direction and kind of blank and actively looking at something/someone. Whether or not interested is the question but I don't doubt her gaze was on me directly. our eyes met.
awwww I think that's answerable then. You're just gonna have to grab your self-confidence with both hands, and smile at her! And btw, the suggestion of striking up a conversation about what she's doing is brilliant! If she's stocking something that you need (or don't, whatever) you CAN walk up to her as a 'customer' and ask her something about it, or the location of something like it or the location of something not at all like it because, "I've seen you here so often, I figure you know the store pretty well, and sometimes I'm totally lost!"...self deprecation when done well, is charming.

Just remember to smile!!!
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