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Originally Posted by junestarlit
Yeah, the sad part is before we met he came off as having a way stronger sex drive. Whenever I mention stuff he says that I wait until too late so he's tired. I just wish I could change everything that's ever happened, i feel as though these thoughts, insecurities, distrust, will always be stamped in my brain as long as we're together due to them happening now.
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It is sad, the way relationships work. I sometimes wish we could know what we are getting in the beginning but so often there are things we find out later about the other person that really changes the relationship. We as humans are so often putting our best foot forward that sometimes (and I'm guilty too) we aren't completely genuine. Some of this is due to the fact that we are being cautious but I think many times we go too far to "look good" to the other person.
Being my age (46) I've learned and have calmed down and going forward I am trying to be more genuine if I ever meet someone, I want them to know what they are getting and that way if they choose me, they won't be in for shockers later, like you are with your bf.
I hope it gets better for you