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Originally Posted by MusicalRaven
I was afraid that this would be the solution I have to go with. I really don't want to make my already really small support system smaller, even temporarily. Yet I feel I might not have much choice. I feel like I know this is the right thing but it feels so very wrong. :/
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I know it feels bad, and maybe feels wrong but just know that much of that is fear, and possibly undeserved guilt. If you premise your break away with the putting the burden on yourself to her. Let her know that you're giving her space not out of anger but because you're trying to do the right thing. Put that out there and don't just disappear and I think she'll understand and maybe even gain respect for your actions
Let me know if I can be of any more help.