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Old May 28, 2014, 04:28 PM
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Keep your next pay cheque and fix your teeth, better yet, keep as many pay cheques as it takes to get you back home.

Doesn't sound like he's interested in being your partner, your lover or even your friend. Sounds more like he just likes having a trophy to show off whenever the situation calls for it.

The trophy sits on the mantel and collects dust, its mostly ignored and only gets dusted and polished once it looks forlorn ( expressing your unhappiness and him "agreeing" to fix things) or when someone else will see it, for appearance sake obviously....

Sucks, I know. Oh how I know...

I used to be a trophy, just simply part of the damn furniture toward the end... no amount of communicating made me become a humanbeing, actually, after a few years, I got downgraded to punching bag...

Not saying he's gonna beat you to a pulp, just saying I know what its like to be an insignificant mantle piece... I would leave.

Because he's not meeting any of your needs, he brings nothing to the relationship table, serves no significant purpose in your life.

I'm sure your friends back home can provide whatever it is he thinks he is, and then some...
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