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Old May 28, 2014, 06:50 PM
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Originally Posted by wyss View Post
Well, we haven't spoken in a week. Is this still "normal" and ok - I hate to be a pest, but I am new to this whole thing where a guy withdraws and I am not sure how much time is good and when I need to start to worry?
Start worrying, when your needs aren't being met, imo. I feel, that it's not being a pest, to have needs and expectations and desires.
He could map out a time, to let you know when he feels he'll have time that he'll call. Then again, where's the romantic gesturing in too much space in between calling.
Would it, hypothetically, be deal breaking to be too busy or tired, to not briefly pick up that phone, if you experienced some sort of personal crisis, for example major health news?

Are us women, truly worriers, or are we dealing with a creature of different sorts?
(Hunch was decade, him being older than mid 40's, to answer that question you asked)


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