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Originally Posted by ECHOES
Maybe it is scary to need someone? Or that to say what you want sounds like you would be opening yourself up and you would be vulnerable? Or that the likelihood of getting in is small and might feel like rejection or failure?
I think it's a great question, and it would be something meaningful to explore in a session.
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I think its all of these, particularly the rejection/failure part as it seems every time I try to ask him for help I never get what I am asking for. I have never got help when I needed it maybe it reinforces the belief that I don't deserve help.