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Originally Posted by ak482
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I get so sick of people talking in patronizing terms about my lack of sex. I get a lot of "sex isn't all that it's cracked up to be" or "there's nothing wrong with you." Okay, if that's the case, why do I wish that I go to sleep and never wake up again?Why do I feel like that I will never have any sex, and thus I feel I want to end my life? Why does the pain and stigma of virginity grow exponentially every day I go without sex if it's that meaningless? Why I am I regarded as one of the lowest forms of species on earth?
Stop condescending and be honest with me. Call me a f----t to my face, I'll respect it even more that you're honest. Put it out for the world to see, and to make sure I never get any  |
I get this all the time. "Relationships aren't that great". "Don't worry about sex". "It's all hype". "Boys suck. Don't bother with them". It is so annoying because if you really think that, how about you dump your partner and live alone in celibacy? If relationships aren't great then why the hell do anyone want to get into them?
But to be honest, I don't think that people saying patronizing things is the reason why being a virgin is difficult. Being a virgin at an older age or just losing it or having a relationship later in life is hard because you watch everyone pair off without you. It's like this thing that you can notice everyone else has but for some reason, not you and you don't know why it's never your turn. After a while, you feel like you've been alive X amount of years and no one has been interested in you in all of that time and because of that, you have no value. The fact that the media mocks virgins doesn't help this pre-existing belief.